Understand before you act

Decide your divorce before it starts.

Divorce Decoded is the first call before the lawyer — an educational and strategic consulting service for people beginning to think about divorce or navigating the early stages.

What We Do

Before you hire a lawyer, you deserve clarity.

Divorce can feel overwhelming — emotionally, financially, and legally. Before you take big steps or spend thousands on attorneys, we help you understand your situation, explore your options, and plan your next move. Divorce Decoded is the first call before the lawyer — an educational and strategic consulting service for people beginning to think about divorce or navigating the early stages.

Our 1:1 guidance helps you stay grounded, save money, and make smart decisions — with confidence.

  • Get clarity before making legal or emotional decisions
  • Create a calm, step-by-step plan for your next 30 days
  • Save money and stress by knowing your options early
  • Move forward with confidence and emotional stability
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Why It Matters

Most people call a lawyer first — and regret it later. Legal advice is essential, but not before you know what you actually want. At Divorce Decoded, we help you get clear on what truly matters before taking that next step.

We help you define your goals, understand your options, and create a plan that keeps you calm, organized, and confident — long before the legal process begins.

  • Organize your financial and emotional situation
  • Clarify goals for custody, property, and communication
  • Avoid overwhelm and make informed choices
  • Save time and money once you do hire professionals

How It Works

The D.E.C.O.D.E. Method™

  • 1 Discover   your story and situation
  • 2 Evaluate   your readiness and priorities
  • 3 Choose   your path — reconciliation, mediation, or filing
  • 4 Organize   key information and next steps
  • 5 Design   your action plan
  • 6 Engage   with clarity and support
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About the Founder

Austin Ivey - Founder of Divorce Decoded

Austin Ivey

After seeing friends and clients struggle through the confusion of early divorce, I founded Divorce Decoded to give people a calm, strategic place to start. With years of experience in consulting, coaching, and communication strategy, he helps clients move from overwhelm to understanding.

I started Divorce Decoded because I kept seeing smart, capable people feel completely lost when the word “divorce” entered the conversation. The emotions were real, but the process felt foreign — full of legal terms, timelines, and decisions they didn’t feel ready to make. I knew there had to be a better way to start.

My goal isn’t to replace lawyers — it’s to help you slow things down and get clear on what matters — before lawyers, courtrooms, or paperwork start dictating your path. Most of my clients don’t need legal answers right away. They need emotional space, honest language, and a strategy they can trust.

I help you translate the legal chaos into human terms. That means reviewing your priorities, organizing your information, and figuring out what outcomes actually serve you — whether that’s reconciliation, mediation, or a respectful separation. You don’t need to become a legal expert. You just need someone who’s walked people through this before.

If you're feeling frozen between "something needs to change" and "I don’t know what to do next," that’s exactly where I step in. This isn’t therapy. It’s not legal advice. It’s structured, clear, one-on-one guidance that helps you take the first smart step — and then the next.

Divorce Decoded isn’t about pushing you in any direction. It’s about helping you move forward with clarity, courage, and confidence — on your terms.

Educational & Strategic Divorce Consulting.
Not a law firm. Not legal advice.

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